Going to an erotic party alone? Can be exciting - or simply exhausting.

Insomnia Apr 2, 2025 Info A kinky party, a fetish night or a sensual event sounds tempting – but going alone? Showing up on your own and hoping it fits? It may work – or not.

It is much more pleasant to dive into the action with someone at your side who knows the scene and makes it easier for you to get started. Often it is not a lack of desire, but a lack of opportunity: It can quickly become complicated for a single person at the door, as a woman you lack familiarity, and in a foreign city you don't know anyone.

This is where our Travelmate-Service for erotic parties comes in, to help you get started and ensure you have a safe and relaxed experience.

The typical challenges at sex-positive parties:
Many people are curious about kinky parties, fetish events or BDSM events, but often fail because of the following problems – whether alone or as a couple.

1. Men often can't get in alone
Most organisers try to maintain a good gender balance. This means that single men have a hard time getting in, because clubs don't want to risk an unbalanced ratio developing. However, as a couple or with a female companion, you can get in without any problems. A travel mate for sex-positive parties can be a perfect solution here, to get in together without stress and to enjoy the night to the full.

2. For women alone, it takes a lot of courage
While men often fail at the door rules, it is a different challenge for women: the thought of going to an erotic party alone can cause insecurities. Especially if you don't have a girlfriend to accompany you, the first step often feels unfamiliar or scary. A safe companion for sex-positive events helps you to overcome your inhibitions and feel comfortable.

3. Unknown city, no companion available
Maybe you are on a business trip or on holiday and would like to visit a kinky party, fetish party or BDSM event in Berlin or another city, but you don't have anyone to go with. In a foreign city, you often lack the social network to spontaneously find a suitable companion.

The solution: a travel mate for erotic parties

Your travel mate is your guide through the Berlin night and will bring you into contact with like-minded people – whether it's in-depth conversations in a relaxed atmosphere, in a lively group of like-minded people or in the middle of the lively hustle and bustle of a kinky party.

A travel mate fills this gap and helps to avoid the above-mentioned problems:
• For men, a travel mate allows them entry by presenting themselves as a ‘couple’ – an ideal companion for sex-positive parties.
• For women, it provides the security of not being alone and having a point of contact – the perfect companion for erotic parties.
• In unfamiliar cities, a travel mate ensures that you don't feel lost and can enjoy the event in a relaxed manner.

What makes a Travelmate different from a normal companion?
Not an escort service: It's not about sexual services, but about a safe, social and supportive companion.
Experienced & discreet: A Kinky Party Travelmate knows the scene, knows what's what, and can discreetly introduce you to what's going on.
• Customised: Whether you are planning an evening of adventure or just want to get a taste of it, your Kinky Party Coach will adapt to your needs.

Conclusion: More freedom, fewer hurdles
A travel mate for erotic parties is the perfect solution for getting access to special events, feeling comfortable and enjoying the experience to the full – without insecurity, stress or social hurdles. Whether you're a man who would otherwise not be allowed in, a woman who wants to feel safer, or a traveller who wants to explore the scene in a foreign city – a kinky party travel mate makes all the difference!